Juanna Grace Ladaga
The longer I live,
The more deeply I learn
That love,
Whether we call it friendship
Or family or romance,
Is the work of mirroring
And magnifying
Each other's light.
Gentle work. Steadfast work.
Life-saving work in those moments
When life and shame and sorrow
Occlude our own light from our view.
But there is still a clear-eyed loving person
To beam it back.
In our best moments
We are that person for another.
James Baldwin
A Celebration of Renewal- A Discovery Of The Foundations For the Future
Vow Renewal
Whether your reaching a milestone in your relationship, or simply want to demonstrate your love and commitment is still strong, a renewal of vows ceremony can offer a well held format for all that wants to be expressed.
Jenny and Peter married in their 20s in the church where their own parents were married. Traditional vows, readings and rituals were what was on offer and there was very little personalisation possible. Now, in their 50s, after coming through various challenges, and having now adult children and an empty nest, they were drawn to explore renewing what they now wanted to offer one another.
They reflected on their vows and had conversations together about what their married life had brought them so far, and what they were hoping for in their future together. They decided to not invite anyone else to their ceremony which was held in the stunning grounds of a ruined castle while the bluebells and honeysuckle were in season.
With me as their celebrant, and Jason their photographer, they expressed what the relationship meant to them, and spoke their new vows. They shared the loving cup, filled with hope (and a good whiskey!) for how they’re going to enjoy the next phase of their lives.
How Does It Work?
Once the couple book me, we make a plan for the timeline during which we will work. I have lots of resources to get the creative juices flowing, including ideas for personal and meaningful vows, locations, readings, local photographers and musicians.
Many people like to include a traditional Celtic handfasting ritual. The ritual of sharing the loving cup/ Quaich is also popular. However, I work with the couple to ensure that what goes into the ceremony only serves to amplify the intention for the ceremony.
Ideally preparation time is 3-6 months, but I can work within other time frames.
Whether you want to do the deep dive into reflections and discovery, or whether you simply want to be guided into a simple, intimate and meaningful ceremony - I am here to guide, support and celebrate you as you renew your vows.
